I once heard a guy tell me that women hold grudges for ever, and men put things behind them. I've discovered the secret.
I (like many other girls) have been screwed over by far too many guys in my life. Guys seem to think that once you fight something out, it's fine the next day - when it's their fault.
Truth is, is that guys just aren't as wise in thinking ahead. It's human nature to forgive for a few mistakes. But a repetative occurence is called a habit. And habits are tough - some say impossible - to break. If something has happened once or twice, and it's forgiveable, it's ok. But on to the fourth, fifth, sixth time? It's not acceptable.
I'm smart enough to know that guys are clueless about themselves. Its the same reason males have less self confidence issues. It's because they're blind. They don't see it when they're being dumb (for lack of a better term.)
They lack so many common sense skills. I can't think of one guy that has the intuition, common sense or ability to change that a woman does. I'm not saying I'd like to be surrounded by women - because I can't stand a lot of them.
I'm rambling know. Bottom line is that when it gets to a point with any male figure that I can assume when a fight, argument or problem when occur, it's time to move on.
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