How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days.

I'm really not into chick-flicks. Honestly. But this movie got me in a few parts. Why can't guys just act normal?

The scene in which they're in the bathroom and they're all wet from.. I'm not sure what because I missed the part before it. And they get all romantic, but not in the disgusting sucking face sex kind of way. I liked it. It actually looked like love.

I heard a quote once, "A guy falls in love with a woman hoping she'll never change. A woman falls in love with a man hoping to change him completely."

Also, the song "I'm still a guy" by Toby Keith( who I saw in concert, which was AMAZING) displays this quite well.

I don't expect the guy I love to become some extremely romantic fabio-esque creature. But I do know that they're capable of being civilized.

My guy is getting there. I don't want him to change to make me happy. I want us to both change so that we fit together like to perfect parts of a mold. And so we can be happy together.

It dawned on me the other day, he's getting there.

To most guys, including one of my best friend's boyfriends, ( I mean that as in one of my best friends, not one of her boyfriends, she only has one) things like periods, etc are taboo. Not to my guy. When you're guy can ask you nonchalantly if you're "still on your period" on the phone while with his friends, you got the right one. But only in certain context.

Conversation Example #1:
Girl: I love you :)
Boy: ya ily2
Girl: What's your problem? I don't get why you do that to me!
Boy: God, are you on your period or something?

Conversation Example #2:
Boy: What's up babe
Girl: Nothing
Boy: Are you okay?
Girl: I'm fine
Boy: Baby what's wrong?
Girl: I'm hurting, really bad.
Boy: Awh baby still on your period? I'm sorry.




Convo #1 is the douchey way to say "bitch". And girls have mood swings, deal with it. Don't pull the period card on that one. Convo #2 is a guy being sensitive enough to know what's wrong with his girl. It's even more attractive when he figures out when you're on your period, so he can know without you having to tell him.


I could tell that when my guy asked, he was bit hesitant. But I think he's getting there. I know he will. He always wants me to know that he loves me. And I know he does. I'll never forget it <3